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Misconceptions about a new vein of comedy

November 25th, 2011 Comments off

by Damian Adams

Not knowing your biological father is hardly a fit topic for Hollywood slapstick.

Starbuck is a new French-Canadian comedy about what happens when a sperm donor who has fathered 533 children is tracked down by over 100 of them. There is all manner of hilarious slapstick when he anonymously steps into their lives after watching them from afar. According to the Ottawa Citizen, it’s “a sparkling crowd-pleaser”. Read more…

Why ‘splitting’ motherhood is against the rights of the child

November 8th, 2011 Comments off

Wonderful! The world is coming to its senses!

FROM THE IONA INSTITUTE BLOG:

In the last year to 18 months the European Court of Human Rights (ECHR, pictured) had handed down several excellent decisions. The most famous is the Lautsi judgement in which it ruled that Italy could place crucifixes on the walls of state classrooms.

In another, it ruled that a prohibition on same-sex marriage did not violate the European Convention on Human Rights, and this week it ruled that a ban on the use of donor sperm or eggs does not violate the Convention. Read more…

Anonymous No More: Child of Sperm Donor Speaks Out

October 15th, 2011 30 comments
Such children struggle with a unique anxiety: What if I fall in love with my half-sibling?

by CHRISTOPHER WHITE

Kevin Moloney/Getty ImagesThirty-two invitro fertilized children gather at the Swedish Medical Center in 2003 in Denver. The Colorado Center for Reproductive Medicine at the Center gathered the children from each of its 16 years of work in the field. Guests included Payton Kline, 4 1/2 months, the 5,000th invitro fertilized baby born at the center. – Kevin Moloney/Getty Images Read more…

Donor Kids: How Sperm And Egg Donor Babies Grow Up

January 25th, 2011 Comments off

Posted by ceridwen

“One of my least favorite things is sperm donor jokes, which are also inexplicably common. The only thing I hate more than sperm donor jokes is when someone calls their absent dad/child’s father a sperm donor… I literally have to walk away in order to not to get incredibly angry at whoever is saying it. ” Read more…

Sperm Donor Kids Speak Out: Our Biological Dads Matter to Us

January 25th, 2011 Comments off

by Elizabeth Marquardt

” … I don’t want to be on his family’s Christmas cards or to take up an inordinate amount of his time. I just want to know who he is.”

“I feel like half a person.”

“I wish he simply knew I exist.”

If you are a man who gets a woman pregnant after meeting her in a bar, you cannot legally hide your identity from your child, nor walk away from at least minimal responsibility as a father. Yet if you wish anonymously to sell your sperm to a sperm bank, you can remain hidden from your child forever. Read more…

The Kids Are Not All Right

August 11th, 2010 Comments off

by Elizabeth Marquardt

A scruffy man, tanned and good-looking, dressed in an old leather jacket and snug jeans, is on a motorcycle zipping through a neighborhood near you. He’s a restaurateur into “local” everything, a man whose produce vendor is one among many sexy women who want to hook up with him. He was also, years ago, a sperm donor who, unbeknownst to him, achieved reproductive success. Read more…

Daddy Was Only a Donor

June 19th, 2010 1 comment

By W. BRADFORD WILCOX

In “The Switch,” coming later this summer, Jennifer Aniston plays an attractive 40-year-old professional who has given up on finding Mr. Right for marriage and decides instead to move straight on to motherhood with a donor father. The movie offers a largely celebratory treatment of donor insemination, as do two other movies out this year, “The Back-up Plan” and next month’s “The Kids Are All Right.” Indeed, one of the bottom-line conclusions these movies are pushing is that the children turn out “all right” with donor dads. Read more…

MSNBC: Kids Don’t Need Fathers

June 11th, 2010 36 comments

Is Father’s Day going to become obsolete? I guess those for whom it is actually celebrated are a dying breed.

By Van Helsing

Father’s Day is coming up a week from Sunday. MSNBC has begun to honor it already — by proclaiming that fathers are needed only for their sperm: Read more…

Who did I come from? The children of donor dads grow up

June 10th, 2010 Comments off

by Elizabeth Marquardt

A revealing new study shows that, for donor offspring at least, being wanted isn’t everything.

Experts estimate that there could be around one million young people alive in the world today as a result of sperm donation. How are they doing? Elizabeth Marquardt of the Institute for American Values and colleagues have done a unique study based on a large, representative US survey and, in a report published today, tell us that the kids, many of them, are not okay. In this interview with MercatorNet during a recent conference hosted by the Social Trends Institute in Barcelona, she talks about some of her findings. Read more…

Orphaned at conception

June 10th, 2010 Comments off

Wow. Powerful title.

by Michael Cook

Is it high-tech child abuse to rob children of their biological heritage?

A 51-year-old Michigan man may have fathered as many as 400 children by donating sperm to an IVF clinic between 1980 and 1994. At the time Kirk Maxey saw this as a way to pay his way through medical school and to help infertile women. “You would get a personal phone call from a nurse saying, ‘The situation is urgent! We have a woman ovulating this morning. Can you be here in a half hour?’,” he told Newsweek last year. Read more…

The Birds and the Bees (via the Fertility Clinic)

June 10th, 2010 Comments off

By ROSS DOUTHAT, New York Times

If you want to adopt a child in the United States, you’ll face an array of bureaucratic roadblocks and invasive interrogations. Adoption agencies will assess your finances, your relationships, and your fitness as a potential guardian. The interests of the child, not the desires of the would-be parent, will be treated as paramount throughout. Read more…

Sperm donor children share experiences in new research

May 19th, 2010 Comments off

by Jared Yee

Are sperm donor children interested in their biological father and half-siblings? How does the knowledge of their unusual conception affect them? Read more…

I’m the Only Daddy You Got! I’m the Paterfamilias!

February 19th, 2010 4 comments

Great article by a Ruth Institute Academic Advisory Board Member.

By Jennifer Lahl, CBC National Director

Newsweek recently reported a story about a 51-year-old man, who between 1980 and 1994 donated his sperm twice a week in order to make cash for medical school and to nurture his altruistic desires to help infertile women. Kirk Maxey states, “I loved having kids, and to have these women doomed to wandering around with no family didn’t seem right, and it’s easy to come up with a semen donation.”

Don’t get me started. Read more…